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Sharif H. Joynson
January 11, 2022
Relationship Mastery

Stop Kidding Yourself

Sharif H. Joynson
January 11, 2022
Relationship Mastery
Stop Kidding Yourself

You weren't born to play small and live a life governed by the terror of being hurt/rejected/abandoned…

Sharif H. Joynson
November 25, 2021
Relationship Mastery

Single Woman: This is The Most Important Thing You'll Ever Read

Sharif H. Joynson
November 25, 2021
Relationship Mastery
Single Woman: This is The Most Important Thing You'll Ever Read

Your power is found in the yearning - not by avoiding it.

Sharif H. Joynson
June 20, 2021

Man of Secrets

Sharif H. Joynson
June 20, 2021
Man of Secrets

Do you know your father?

Tagged: fathers day, men

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Sharif H. Joynson
May 20, 2021
Self Mastery, Relationship Mastery

The Avoidant Man | (Interview)

Sharif H. Joynson
May 20, 2021
Self Mastery, Relationship Mastery

The Avoidant Masculine - an interview with Justina Victora

Tagged: avoidant

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Sharif H. Joynson
February 6, 2021
Relationship Mastery

Servant King

Sharif H. Joynson
February 6, 2021
Relationship Mastery
Servant King

A poem

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Sharif H. Joynson
January 29, 2021
Self Mastery

Know Your Bones

Sharif H. Joynson
January 29, 2021
Self Mastery
Know Your Bones

You can revive your ancestors

Sharif H. Joynson
January 17, 2021
Relationship Mastery

"I'M JUST SUPER BUSY RIGHT NOW"

Sharif H. Joynson
January 17, 2021
Relationship Mastery
"I'M JUST SUPER BUSY RIGHT NOW"

He could be genuinely busy.

But, this is most likely more honestly translated as…

Tagged: avoidant

Sharif H. Joynson
August 31, 2020
Relationship Mastery

Men and Commitment - Harsh Truths

Sharif H. Joynson
August 31, 2020
Relationship Mastery
Men and Commitment - Harsh Truths

The three types of man - ‘There But Not There’, ‘Not There and Doesn’t Pretend to Be’ and ‘There’

Sharif H. Joynson
August 31, 2020
Relationship Mastery

Requesting His Presence

Sharif H. Joynson
August 31, 2020
Relationship Mastery
Requesting His Presence

“…whether his emotional response is neutral or negative to this immediate demand for his attention, one thing is absolutely certain – he will never be happy to have been asked this”

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Sharif H. Joynson
July 3, 2020
Relationship Mastery, Self Mastery

"I'm Sorry"

Sharif H. Joynson
July 3, 2020
Relationship Mastery, Self Mastery
"I'm Sorry"

The power required for true humility is something we've lost respect for on some level, because we've experienced so little of it

Tagged: apology

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Sharif H. Joynson
July 3, 2020
Self Mastery, Relationship Mastery

The Toxic Mother

Sharif H. Joynson
July 3, 2020
Self Mastery, Relationship Mastery
The Toxic Mother

“If you love me, then you will…. “

Tagged: toxic mother, mother wound, mr nice guy

Sharif H. Joynson
March 27, 2020

THE CROWN OF KALI

Sharif H. Joynson
March 27, 2020
THE CROWN OF KALI

Kali is said to be the goddess of time or the goddess of destruction.

At the heart of both of those things is ‘change’. And therefore, new beginnings.

Tagged: kali coronavirus

Sharif H. Joynson
January 12, 2020
Self Mastery

War is Feminine

Sharif H. Joynson
January 12, 2020
Self Mastery
War is Feminine

The chaos (feminine) of war is created when warriors battle each other. But what each side is ultimately trying to achieve the restoration of order (masculine)

Tagged: war, warrior archetype, order and chaos

Sharif H. Joynson
January 12, 2020
Self Mastery

TRUST ONLY THE DANGEROUS

Sharif H. Joynson
January 12, 2020
Self Mastery
TRUST ONLY THE DANGEROUS

When most people speak about choosing peace instead, they do so as a puppet; their mouths being flapped open and shut by the hand of social conditioning, their words being spoken by the ventriloquism of socialization.

Tagged: shadow integration

Sharif H. Joynson
January 12, 2020
Relationship Mastery

The Toxic Man

Sharif H. Joynson
January 12, 2020
Relationship Mastery
The Toxic Man

I felt chills when it dawned on me that I recognised this man

Tagged: avoidant, love addiction

Sharif H. Joynson
December 5, 2019
Self Mastery

Standards By Which to Judge Men

Sharif H. Joynson
December 5, 2019
Self Mastery
Standards By Which to Judge Men

Do you make the Team? Would you choose yourself?

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Sharif H. Joynson
December 5, 2019

London Bridge Terrorist & Martial Culture

Sharif H. Joynson
December 5, 2019
London Bridge Terrorist & Martial Culture

I have weird karma around just missing such incidents, as in, I was ALMOST there. Including 911, the Vegas shootings, a machete rampage in north London and an attempted coup in the Philippines.

Sharif H. Joynson
December 5, 2019
Self Mastery

Men Can Never Be Victims

Sharif H. Joynson
December 5, 2019
Self Mastery
Men Can Never Be Victims

Men are fucked.

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Sharif H. Joynson
November 2, 2019
Self Mastery

The Only Movie I Went to See Twice. Here's Why.

Sharif H. Joynson
November 2, 2019
Self Mastery
The Only Movie I Went to See Twice. Here's Why.

I had come to watch this film only to see what the fuss was about. What I wasn’t expecting was to discover a piece of cinema that tapped into some of my own personal grief, and what I also believe to be the collective grief of many other men.

Tagged: men mental health

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Sharif H. Joynson
October 31, 2019

The Dark Feminine in Japanese Horror

Sharif H. Joynson
October 31, 2019
The Dark Feminine in Japanese Horror

A few months ago, I did something I hadn’t done for many years – I went to the cinema to see a horror movie…

Tagged: onryo, dark feminine, j-horror

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